I have often driven myself into a frenzy because I have a “big” something to do. A big project, a big presentation, a big deadline … and so on. I remember the day that I took out the word “big” and substituted a declarative sentence without the adjective. It didn’t negate the scope of the project, but somehow it made it more manageable and gave me a calmer entree point into planning the execution of the task.
Perhaps we magnify our words to match the emotion we might have about the thing that needs doing. If we tend toward perfectionism, we know how “big” this might be; if we’re in a situation where we’re already doing some major projects, another assignment might “do us in”. A phrase I often hear today is: “I’m slammed”. A translation from one who fits into the : “back in the day” generation, I think that means, I’m backed against the wall and can’t do another thing or honor my or any other commitments
The geese in our image have flown in for the night for water, rest and renewal on a partially frozen lake. Earlier in the week I had been frustrated about how poorly my pictures had turned out at the “big” night shoot downtown with a photography group. I tripped over my tripod, couldn’t shoot the angle I wanted; forgot how to change settings … but I learned a lot from others who generously shared solutions. So after an hour of practice the next day in how to assemble my equipment, shoot a few practice shots, I made a quick trip to my neighborhood lake for a few pictures at sunset.
Wishing you some small moments of calm during a “big” time of year.
IBK
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IBK, thank you for your post about remaining calm and dealing with perfectionism. I’ve shared it with another friend who was wondering how to deal with perfectionism. You are blessing people that you may not even know!
How very true! I can work myself into a frenzy or just work…and often find the “big” really isn’t that big at all. (Feel free to remind me of this!)